Examples of Infidelity Questions
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Examinees are limited to 1-3 questions
Any additional questions will require a second test. The questions are formulated based on past actions and behaviors and cannot relate to the feelings of the examinee or another person, or the opinions or actions of someone else.
What sort of questions will I be asked?
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Relevant infidelity polygraph test questions tend to require a yes or no answer only. You won’t be asked any questions that require a narrative.
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Most infidelity tests are conducted as a single-issue test. In other words, you are asked about one issue; normally something along the lines of “during your marriage have you had sexual contact with anyone other than your spouse/partner?”
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Questions can not be subjective or ambiguous. You must understand exactly what you are being asked.
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Questions about feelings and emotions are not asked i.e. you won’t be asked if you loved the person that you are accused of having an affair with.
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All questions in an infidelity Polygraph test tend to be quite direct i.e. “Did you have sex with ____?” and not “did you think about having sex with ____ and would you have enjoyed it?”
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sample INFIDELITY questions
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Since the beginning of the relationship, have you ever had sexual intercourse with anyone other than (Name of partner)?
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Have you ever engaged in any type of sexual activity with (SPECIFIC NAME)?
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Since the beginning of the relationship, have you ever had sexual contact with anyone other than (Name of Partner)?
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Since (SPECIFIC DATE), have you communicated in any way with (SPECIFIC NAME)?
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Have you ever utilized any pay-for-sex type service?
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Since (SPECIFIC DATE), have you met in-person with anyone from the (SPECIFIC NAME) website?
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During the last three years, have you had sex with anyone other than husband/wife/spouse/name?
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Have you had any illegal drugs or alcohol consumption in the past (SPECIFIC DATE).
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Have you sexted anyone besides your spouse since (SPECIFIC DATE).
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Did you have sexual contact with anyone while on vacation to (SPECIFIC PLACE).
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Did you have physical sexual contact with a minor/victim.
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Sexual contact with daughter’s friend (defined as oral sex, fondling breasts, mutual masturbation)
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Besides the one cell phone disclosed, do you have any other cell phones.
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Ever paid to have sexual contact with someone (defined as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex, lap dance)
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Example #1
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R1: Sexual contact with someone besides your wife since marriage (defined as vaginal/oral/anal sex, fondling breasts, mutual masturbation)
R2: Sexual contact with a specific person, or with a specific person.
R3: Brought any individuals to a hotel, residence, etc.
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Example #2
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R1: Sexual contact besides those 5 women (who are named in the pre-test instructions)
R2: Use of any social media accounts besides those four (which are named in the pre-test instructions)
R3: Use of multiple cell phones
Example #3
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R1: Sexual contact with Jane Doe since marriage (defined as sexual intercourse, oral sex, fondling breasts, mutual masturbation)
R2: Ever paid to have sexual contact with someone (defined as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex, lap dance)
R3: Participated in a threesome since getting married to spouse.
Example #4
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R1: Ever solicited sex with someone other than spouse since getting married
R2: Sexual contact with daughter’s friend (defined as oral sex, fondling breasts, mutual masturbation)
R3: Sexual contact with an animal as an adult
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Example #5
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R1: Sexual contact with someone besides your wife since marriage (defined as vaginal/oral/anal sex, fondling breasts, mutual masturbation)
R2: Sexual communication with another woman since February 2022
R3: Viewed porn since getting married
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CUSTOM QUESTIONS
R1: CUSTOM QUESTION #1
R2: CUSTOM QUESTION #2
R3: CUSTOM QUESTION #3​